It's Complicated

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010, 9:50 pm

It's Complicated was pretty much what I expected it to be, and I liked it about as much as I thought I would (two stars of five, and again, that's purely subjective, but I'll get into that below). Briefly: Jane (Meryl Streep), ten years divorced from Jake (Alec Baldin, and what a time people must have had reading Nancy Meyers's screenplay with Jane and Jake getting every other line -- then again, since she wrote and directed, maybe nobody else needed to read it), suddenly finds things rekindled with him at the same time that she starts falling for Adam, the architect responsible for building additions on her house. Add three grown kids (including Hunter Parrish, who plays Silas on Weeds, and don't think that didn't distract me all movie long) and you've got ... well, you've got a movie.

Things were as unsentimental as I hoped, the jokes were often solid (John Krasinski, as the fiance of the oldest daughter, gets a memorable scene having lunch at a hotel where Jane and Jake are liaising), and the story was told with little wasted motion, but in the end, I wonder if this is one of those movies where I legitimately suffered from not being in the target audience. After all, someone loved it -- the picture was nominated for Best Comedy or Musical at the Golden Globes, and Meyers's screenplay also took a nomination. (Meryl Streep was nominated too, but she could wander around midtown Manhattan in a paper sack and get a nomination for it at this point. It's almost pro forma. Not that I'm complaining, really, because she fully inhabits every character she plays despite basically being the only woman of her age that Hollywood can turn to on these matters. She's remarkable, really.) Having no experience being divorced, having no experience being old, having no experience with the onset of the empty nest, perhaps I just couldn't identify with Jane and Jake. I'd like to say that the movie should have drawn me in anyway, that I find ways to get involved with lots of characters who are nothing like me, but maybe in this kind of movie, it's forgiveable.

I guess in part I'm being wary of leveling too much criticism at Meyers, who is, after all, the only person in Hollywood who does what she does. Movies don't shoot for the 40+ female demographic (or the 40+ demographic at all, for that matter), and as someone who hopes to be 40+ someday, and hopes to be married to a 40+ female at the time, I'd like to think that when I get there, there will be movies made for me.

I don't know. It's a debate for me whether it was really me being half Alec Baldwin's age that made me fail to identify with Jake or whether it was actually Meyers's screenplay and direction and the editing of Joe Hutshing and David Moritz that took me out of the story. Were there too many distractingly strange shots (like one of Alec Baldwin about halfway through that suddenly centered him in the frame and had him deliver his line full-on to the camera, putting us much more literally in Jane's shoes than anything before or after asked us to be) or was I easily distracted? Did the editing in the first third of the movie somehow manage to kill every single joke or was that humor just not written for me? Was the utter perfection of Jane and Jake's family (the three adult children are as close as can be, with constant smiles and chirpy remarks) distracting to everyone or was I just not able to disappear into the escapist fantasy from my own flawed family life?

If you're not in the generation above mine, if you don't have kids, if you or your friends aren't divorced, will you like the movie? And does it matter if you do? Like I said, I don't know.

That's a crummy way to end a blog post, but that's why I'm a blogger and not a professional.

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